Sometimes I just get so irritated and want to holler at everyone around me and say “:WAKE UP and smell the damnned roses if I have to thrust your effing face into it”

Why are humans so concerned about their outer image that they just let themselves rot within, not taking time to appreciate the small things, to just learn how to accept and let go gracefully? Why are we always clutching on by the very rags of or nails, lying to ourselves, that this one thing is with what we matter without realising that we are just letting ourselves down and making things worse.

Sure, there are bigger things out there but does anyone stop and think that the big always have to start somewhere small. So if you appreciate the small things, just like smiling more or by just laughing out loud, you are preparing yourself to handle the big things. We are given such a short period of time, so why do we waste time moaning how much it sucks and how we should be doing something else and how we have not lived for the past eighteen years. Isn’t it about time we grew up? To realise that to live is not to get the best cards but to make the best of your cards. To realise by doing something as insignificant as walking in the rain is enough to give you pleasure and to admit to yourself that it is pleasurable and to feel happy that it is raining and you can feel every single drop, coursing thorough you and just feeling it patter down.

Why do we not embrace the lightness of being (thanks lynn!!! It’s a great book) and insist that life is burden that must weigh us down? When did it shift from looking forward to looking backward? Why must it shift? Because we let it. Because we get bogged down by things we can’t change and we just love wallowing in that rut and try to blame everything else, Well guess what, human? You have no one to blame but yourself. Go take an attitude change. Others have no time for you.
Just snap out of it because sooner or later, people will tire of you and when its too late and all the familiar faces have turned strange, you have just dug your own grave.

Find new things to do. Don’t be a has been, be a has be. There a million and one things to appreciate about life and if you just sit there and stare at the black spot in the white screen, stare at it for eternity because time has no patience for you and before you know it, when you get up, you’ll have arthritis. The world doesn’t revolve around you and please do not tell me I know because if you do it just makes you more irritating because now you are knowingly going through the motions and all the more, the world will not stop moving. Don’t stop living in the present because of what has been or what is to come. Savour each moment. Because your time her eon earth is already short, do not shorten it further. Who knows what fate has in store for you?

Get a real life